My Favourite Pictures and Memories from June

Hi everyone!

I’ve been neglecting my blog so much this year 😦 This has been a very busy month again, so here’s my monthly post that’s part of a Swap-Bot swap! I hope to post more in the next month!

On 1st June I went to AttitudeFest (a recurring event hosted by Attitude Holland) for the first time! I didn’t take nearly enough photos! It was such a fun day and I met so many lovely people! There were lots of fun workshops to attend and I managed to get lots of really cool clothing items from the clothing swap workshop. I was planning on doing a post featuring all the items I got there, but didn’t have time – let me know if any of you would still like to see it anyway. One of the highlights of the day was meeting this lovely lady (Grave Lavolta) who I have been following on Instagram for a few years now!

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I also got a few photos taken by ByMarije, a photographer whose work I really admire! The nose chain and necklace are my own creations and are available to purchase from my Etsy store.

The following week I left for my first ever Wave-Gotik-Treffen! Again – if you would still like an individual post on this, let me know! I know it’s super late! But here are some of the highlights of the festival.

One of the only photos I took with my friend Caroline. We shared an Airbnb for the week! She has a really cool blog so check it out!
The local bakery sold these cute coffin cakes during the festival so I just had to get one!
The beautiful Wachau church ruins where The Moon and the Nightspirit performed on the Sunday!
Our DIY absinthe bar, haha! I wanted to try absinthe for the first time so my friends helped me out!
Our extremely tired faces! This was taken at 8am on the Tuesday morning when we got kicked out of the last party of WGT.

I took my husband to do a free walking tour of our city and got him to take a selfie! He normally hates selfies!

From the 24th until the 29th I was on a family holiday where we rented a boat on the Canal de la Marne au Rhin in France! I’ll be writing an in-depth post on the trip sometime this week, but here are some photos!

The massive boat lift Saint-Louis-Arzviller
The view from the Château de Lutzelbourg ruins
We also stopped in Luxembourg on the way home. It’s so beautiful there!

I hope you enjoyed reading about my month!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from May

Hi everyone!

Here’s my monthly post that’s part of a Swap-Bot swap! I was very busy again this month!

I had my jewellery stall at Comic Con Gent and on one of the days I did this cool elf look! The circlet is available to purchase in my Etsy shop!

I went to visit my friend Kat in Antwerp, and we went to the Game of Thrones pop up bar! It was so cool! The decor was absolutely perfect and it was a great experience.

I had two photoshoots this month! Here’s my favourite picture I’ve received so far!

I met up with my friend Nienke on the 27th. We did some thrift shopping and afterwards went for all-you-can-eat sushi and even tried some weird things on the menu!

On the 29th my mother came to visit me! We went on a boat tour in my city and I learned a few things I didn’t know yet!

And lastly, I went to see one of my favourite bands, She Past Away, perform at B52 Club in Eernegem. They were amazing and I’d love to see them again!

I hope you enjoyed reading about my month!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from April

Hi everyone!


I’ve been terrible at remembering to create blog posts, oops! April was an extremely busy month for me, so prepare for lots of photos! As always, this post is done as a Swap-Bot swap.

The first awesome thing doesn’t have a photo, but I successfully completed level 2 of my Dutch course! I am now busy with level 3! I think I will be able to speak enough Dutch to get a job after this level!

One of the most exciting things for me was that I got featured on the cover of FEMME Rebelle Magazine‘s April issue! Thank you to DeeDee Boop Photography for this amazing shoot! I am so proud of us! This was actually her first time ever even submitting photos to a magazine!

I also made a new friend called Hjalmar! We met on my folk metal community on Amino, and it’s nice to finally have a friend here in Belgium who loves folk metal as much as I do!


On the 6th April, I tagged along to a my friend Orphea‘s video shoot, and the photographer Erik Noppe, took some photos of me too. I am really happy with how they came out! This one of the two of us is my favourite.


I travelled to The Netherlands to work with the incredible Sanne van Bergenhenegouwen Fotografie and Ashley Design Make-up Artistry. The trip was absolutely worth it as the photos from this shoot are probably my favourite photos of my entire modeling career so far! Here is one photo of each of the looks we shot:

The headpiece in the second photo was made for me by my friend Samantha Els before I left South Africa, and my necklace is one of my own creations and is available to purchase here!

While I was in the bus on my way back home from The Netherlands, my parents phoned and asked if I wanted to go to Damüls, Austria in two days, so of course I said yes as soon as they mentioned the possibility of skiing! Here’s a photo of my mother and I on the slopes!


When I got back, I had one day to relax, then I had my stall at the monthly Etsy Market in the Sint-Niklaaskerk in the Gent city centre!

Orphea also took this lovely photo of me on one of the days before the market opened!

I also travelled to Roeselare to see Elvenking live! Elvenking has been one of my favourite bands for almost 10 years now, so it was a very emotional night for me.


The other two bands who played that night, Desert and Frozen Crown, were also amazing and I enjoyed hanging out with them. Here’s me with Desert, and their unicorn mascot!

And finally, the last photo from April – my favourite jewellery creation from the month! I had lots of fun making many one of a kind beaded necklaces and chokers in April, but this one with the Green Man is my absolute favourite. It’s available to purchase here!


That’s all from me for now! I hope you enjoyed this post!

J

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Gothesque Magazine feature!

Hi everyone!

I’ve been featured in Volume 2 of Gothesque Magazine’s October issue! We actually shot this several months ago but decided to rather wait and get it published because we felt that simply putting it up on social media would be a waste.

You can buy the magazine here!

Model & makeup artist: Jossie Ayame (me)
Photographer: Jes Hunter Photography and Makeup

Here are the tearsheets from my set:

Let me know what you think of these photos!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from September

Hi everyone!

Here’s my monthly post with my favourite pictures from the month. This post is done as a Swap-Bot swap.

First up, I bought this absolutely stunning headpiece from Black Flame Odditorium! I am using it for a photoshoot next weekend!

Next is a selfie with my friend Bree at the Zeplins Reunion Party! Zeplins was my favourite club that sadly closed a few years ago. A few of my friends organised a reunion event with many of the original DJs playing. I can’t remember the last time I had so much fun! My feet were so sore the next day from all the dancing.

I had my stall at Comic Con Africa 14-16th September and it was such an incredible experience! Here’s a photo of me at my stall on the Saturday, when I was cosplaying a splicer from Bioshock. My mask was 3D printed and hand painted by Fairy Fountains! Unfortunately the amazing weekend ended off with my cash box being stolen but luckilt they didn’t get all of my money, and I had such incredible support from the other stallholders and from some of my friends who were there.

On 22nd September I was a guest speaker at the Kief Modils model workshop! It was such an honour to pass on some of my knowledge to new and upcoming models.

On the 26th it was my birthday! Unfortunately I had to work, but my husband did spoil me too! He bought me roses and we decided to make Mavis pretty with some of the petals. She loved posing for us!

The last photo for this month is my beautiful friend Kayleigh! I paid Kief Modils for a product shoot for my bath bombs and I am blown away by the results! This is my favourite photo so far but there are more coming!

That’s all for now!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from May

Hi everyone!

 

This post is part of the ESG: My favourite picture of the month May swap on Swap-Bot. This month was relatively uneventful except for markets so I apologise in advance!

 

So let’s start where we left off – I went to Cape Town for FanCon but we spent a two extra days there so I only came back on the 2nd of May. I got to spend some time with my best friend, Juan! We went to Beerhouse, which was great.

 

That Friday, I went for my Wednesday Addams tattoo! I did post a photo on Facebook, but I am going for a touch up soon so will rather share another photo when it is complete. I am so in love with this piece though!

 

On the 5th I had my stall at Metal United World Wide and had lots of fun with great people. Here’s one of our selfies from the night.

On the 6th I had another stall at Alt. Market – First Sunday of Every Month and I took this cute photo of my friend Bree! We are complete opposites but we are great friends!

 

On the 14th I received my first Firefly Book Bags subscription and I was definitely not disappointed! This was a great surprise and featured lots of magical and Harry Potter themed goodies. I love that they customised the patronus bag to each person’s patronus! My favourite thing is definitely the Howler bag – if you know anything about Harry Potter then you’ll immediately see it! I have not had time to read the book yet, but I will soon!

 

I received an incredible headpiece from Black Frame Odditorium which I will use for a shoot soon! I don’t want to reveal the entire headpiece, but here’s a sneak peek! Isn’t it stunning?!

 

On the 19th and 20th I had my stall at GeekFest! It didn’t go as well as I had planned, but I did have fun. Here’s my female Beetlejuice cosplay from the Sunday!

 

On the 26th and 27th I also had stalls! But the 26th was our World Goth Day event which was held at Melrose House – Pretorian Victorian & The Art of Goth on World Goth Day. It was a lovely day, and I enjoyed seeing everyone’s cool outfits. I even did a quick photoshoot of my outfit with Kitty Bee Photography:

 

That night I went out to Red Room with Bree! I managed to get quite a bit of dancing in so it was an overall great night.

 

On the 27th I had a stall at Kief Modils Charity Market Day. Janine from Kitty Bee Photography and I decided to start up ALT Thrift Gear where we sell secondhand alternative clothing. We set this stall up in between ours and it did very well! So we’ve decided to keep on doing it until we run out of clothes (or get sick of it!).

 

 

I hope you enjoyed hearing about my month!

 

PS – Some exciting news is coming soon!

 

 

 

J

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2017 In Review & Plans For 2018

Hi everyone!

My apologies for taking so long to upload this. January has not been kind to me. I’ve been extremely ill twice, and two of my pets have passed away so I have been very depressed. I’ve finally had the time and energy to finish this post. This is just going to be a quick summary of my 2017, and my plans for 2018.

January

January was pretty slow – I just worked, and wrote my last exam for my degree.

February

I went to Red Room with Juan, and teased my hair really big. I really loved this look!

I also got this incredible drawing of myself from Trevor Schuster. Here’s a side by side comparison of the drawing and the photo he used!

I did a shoot with Wasabi Foto that is very different from my usual style, but I love the result!

March

I handed in my leather bound research report on the 3rd!

I won an award for Trevor at Ink & Iron for best half back colour tattoo! Excuse the sunburn! Here’s my tattoo as well, for those of you who haven’t seen it.

I went to a cosplay picnic in my Little Sister cosplay from Bioshock! I had some awesome photos taken there. This one is my favourite.

My husband and I got engaged! We waited to announce it when we got the ring though, as we decided to have a ring custom made.

I also convinced my non-Goth friends to go to Attrition! Look at how gorgeous they looked!

April

I had a stall at Fantasy Fayre and made this skirt so that I could wear a viking inspired outfit!

I went to visit my beautiful friend Neko in Clarens for the weekend and had so much fun! I wish she didn’t live so far.

I had a photoshoot with Taikutsuna Majo, where two of my beloved pets modeled with me. Sadly they are both no longer with us.

At Pagan Freedom Day I shot with a bow for the first time in years!

May

I graduated my Honours Degree in Strategic Brand Communication!

Unfortunately just a few days after my graduation, my dog, Layla, had to be put down. I was heartbroken and it took me months to recover.

I got new synthetic dreads that I put in for a week. I loved this look I did for Geekfest! I had a stall there and it went really well!

I had a lovely day out with my friend Krisne where we went vintage shopping and drank lots of tea! We even stopped by a charity shop that is also a cat sanctuary and I made a new friend!

June

I was very busy with my jewellery business this month! I had 3 stalls and worked very hard to create stock.

I went to ICON to support my fellow stallholders, and got to fight a knight! Look at how ridiculous I look in the armour! It was lots of fun though!

July

I started working at the company I work at!

I also attended the last ever Dark Noise party with Juan. I’m so sad that I don’t have any more Dark Noise parties to look forward to. They were always so much fun.

August

I was very busy with stalls again this month.

We finally had our engagement photos taken! Thank you to Derek Whitton Photography for the beautiful photos.

My grandfather passed away and we went to his funeral.

September

I visited Neko in Clarens for a week to de-stress and have time to make jewellery stock for my biggest market for the year.

I had a stall at a Harry Potter festival and it was extremely busy! Luckily towards the end of the day I managed to take photos with Simone at the photobooth!

It was my birthday and my mother and I went to watch the Gauteng Philharmonic Orchestra perform Disney songs. It was such a fantastic show!

October

It was my biggest market for the year – rAge. I was extremely over-worked but it was worth it. I wore my Little Sister cosplay again and even found a splicer!

November

I had a stall at Discworld Day! I dressed up as Adora Belle Dearheart from Terry Pratchett’s Going Postal. Unfortunately it was extremely hot and I was unable to manage my stall for the majority of the day. Luckily some kind stallholders looked after me and even drove home with me to make sure that I was safe.

It was my kitchen tea and we went to the botanical gardens. I just love the look on my face in this photo. It was the exact moment that I realised that the lingerie I had just opened was from my mother!

We got married! The day did not go according to plan because it was pouring with rain the whole day, but it was still perfect! Thank you to Swallow-Tail Photography for our amazing photos and my beautiful makeup.

The next day we left on honeymoon, which was absolutely incredible. We went to Paris, Venice and Rome! I’ll write a post all about the wedding and honeymoon! I don’t want to spoil too much, but my absolute favourite place we went to was the Paris Catacombs. Here’s my favourite photo I took there:

December

We got back from honeymoon on the 7th December and I was back at work the next day.

I had 2 amazing photoshoots to end off the year. One with Dark Arts Society:

And one with Shyne Photo:

I worked until the 22nd of December and didn’t do much in my time off. Hardly any of the plans I made worked out unfortunately. But I did have a Harry Potter marathon with Bree!

Sadly one our rats, Dovahkiin passed away suddenly around Christmas, followed by my rabbit, Frodo and one of our other rats, Eddie, in the first week of January. As I mentioned in the beginning of this post, the year didn’t start off well for me, but I hope that it gets better.

 

Plans For 2018

This year is going to be a busy one for me.

As I’m now working full time, I have less time for Ayame Designs and for modeling. Because of this, my jewellery business will take preference over modeling. I am going to focus most of my free time on growing Ayame Designs, especially internationally. I have some very exciting new product ranges coming up this year that I will be working on whenever I can. I will no longer be doing smaller markets, as they are not worth my time. The only exception is when it’s an alternative market and it’s not too far to travel. I am also travelling to Cape Town to have a stall at FanCon! This is the first time that I am travelling outside of Pretoria and Johannesburg for a stall so it’s very exciting!

As for my modeling, I will only be taking on work that will result in something amazing and different. I am much more selective about who I work with, and will only be shooting interesting concepts. Unfortunately all the alternative and goth magazines I would like to be published in don’t have themes I would like to shoot, so I will probably only be submitting to open themed issues or magazines this year.

I have just become permanent at my job! This means that I will also be taking on new responsibilities and I am excited to grow in the company. I’ll also be working much harder than perviously, and therefore won’t have as much free time.

I want to commit to writing a blog post at least once every 2 weeks. I am working on a few new posts right now, and also have some ideas for future posts saved. Unfortunately I don’t have as much time as I’d like to film YouTube videos, so I will be focusing on blogging, as I can write little bits at a time when I can, but don’t often have multiple hours free to film and edit videos.

This year I have also decided to cut all negative things out of my life. Whether it’s people who drag me down or things I let happen. I am done letting people or circumstances affect my happiness. I will make more time for people and things that make me happy.

 

I know this is quite a long post! Congrats on making it to the end! PS – My post about my wedding will be up next week, followed by one on my honeymoon.

 

 

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from July

Hi everyone!

 

Here’s another post that’s part of the ESG: My favourite picture of the month July swap on Swap-Bot.

 

So at at the end of June I got a 2 week contract for an office job as a content uploader. 7th July was my last day, and I took home the smiley face balloon that was tied to my chair. I took this photo after I got home on my last day.

 

The first thing I did when I got paid for the job was to buy a new cage for Frodo, my rabbit. He still refuses to climb up to the other levels, but I will have to somehow train him do it is as he needs exercise.

 

I had a really stunning Moon Goddess shoot with Taikutsuna Majo at my house on the 9th of July and this is my favourite photo from the shoot. She made the awesome headpiece!

 

This next one is a selfie we took after a really fun photoshoot on the 15th July. I wanted to insert the video we took, but it seems that I don’t have the ability to upload videos directly to the blog.

 

And here’s my favourite photo taken on that day. This might possibly be my favourite photo ever taken of me! The photographer is Xpressio – Photo Artistry. Take a look at her other work! We have been working together quite a lot.

 

One day, I came home from work and my mother surprised me with these awesome Pikachu slippers that I have been looking for for months! I love them so much!

 

And last but not least, on the 29th July I went to the Dark_Noise 10th & final Birthday Bash with my best friend Juan. It has a masquerade ball theme so these were our masks! It’s so sad that it was the last event. We had so much fun.

 

I hope you’ve enjoyed hearing about my month!

 

J

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A rant about the modeling industry…

It seems like every second girl is a “model” these days – with their bad photos that look like they were taken with their phone or a point-and-shoot camera and their dreadful posing, makeup and styling. I’m sorry but if you want to call yourself a model, the least you could do is groom yourself properly for a shoot, practise poses, get a makeup artist (even if you think you are good with makeup, if you aren’t amazing, get a makeup artist!) and get a decent photographer. My mentor once told me – if you can’t sell the photos, they shouldn’t be in your portfolio. Don’t waste your time on those dreaded GWC’s (Guys With Cameras – aka the guy who just bought a camera and thinks he’s a photographer, which is another issue on its own).

I have been modeling since 2011 and while I know I am not the best model, the first thing I did when I wanted to start modeling was to pay a professional photographer to get a decent portfolio to start with – before I even told anyone I was a model. That is how it should be done (unless you were scouted by an agency which unfortunately is highly unlikely), not by getting your best friend to take photos with your digital camera in a park and call it a photoshoot. Yes I did shoot with some bad photographers, but you won’t see any of those photos on my social media or portfolios anywhere anymore. I’ve learned that one photo can destroy your entire career. Whether it’s a dodgy concept you shot, a bad photographer you worked with, or just a highly unflattering photo of you. You should set a standard and stick to it. Don’t shoot with photographers who don’t meet your standards, even if they are your friends or are paying you. It’s not worth destroying your reputation as a model.

Another thing that gets on my nerve these days is that every second model is a “professional model”.

Do you do this for a living?
No.
Then you are not a professional. You may have a professional attitude, but unless this is what you do for a living, you are not a professional. Even if you do some paid shoots once or twice a month, it is still a hobby, not a profession.

I mostly do paid work, but give allowance for one or two TFCD (Time For CD – aka free) shoots a month, depending on the quality of the photographer’s work. Even though I get paid for 3 or 4 shoots a month, I still would not be able to quit my job and do it for a living, so I am not a professional and I don’t pretend to be.

Stop calling yourself something you are not. Work to achieve that goal but do not lie to people if you are not a model or professional model yet. You are giving the rest of us who are working our arses off to be successful a bad name.

Rant over.

Yes, I know this was harsh, but unfortunately someone has to tell it like it is.

I hope that some people in the industry will share this so that people can see and hopefully change their attitude to try to be a good model.

J
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