(Better late than never) New Year’s Resolutions

Well hello there!

It’s been a while since I’ve posted anything on my blog… And there’s a lot that’s changed since the last time, but I am going to start posting again every now and then when I feel like it. I recently participated in a Swap-bot swap where we told our partners our New Years Resolutions, and they mentioned posting it on their blog as a way to hold them accountable and help them to not give up. I thought that that was a brilliant idea so here are my resolutions for 2022:

1 – Read at least 1 book every month

I love reading! But in the last few years I’ve gotten into the bad habit of buying books for my collection and never reading any of them. So I have decided to try to read at least one book a month (or 12 books this year if I don’t manage to finish the book I’m reading by the end of the month). Right now I am busy with the second book of the Shadow & Bone series!

2 – Release at least 2 few items in my shop each month

Consistency is something I really struggle with when it comes to my business. I often make a bunch of new things but then forget to add them to my website. This year I am going to try to launch at least 2 new items every month!

3 – Support small businesses and thrift more

This was already a goal last year and I made it all the way to September before I bought any clothing or accessories from a larger retailer! So this year I am going to try to buy from small businesses or secondhand even more.

4 – Really learn to love myself and take care of myself

I tend to neglect myself a lot, so I want to pamper myself more, and learn more healthy habits to improve my mental and physical health. I very recently got diagnosed with ADHD, and suddenly it’s very overwhelming knowing what’s been “wrong” with me my whole life (not that there is anything wrong with having ADHD, but I have always felt like less than those around me due to things about me that I felt I couldn’t change, if that makes sense) and learning about small changes I can make so that I become a happier person.

5 – Turn our apartment into a home with extra touches and organisation

My spaces in our apartment have always been chaotic because I can’t seem to keep things organised even though I try. But I have started buying different tools to help me organise everything, and hopefully keep it organised. My husband and I have also started buying things to really give our apartment some personal touches to make it feel more homey.

6 – Write more

I would like to write blog posts more again, since I really enjoy it. It’s easy for me to write a little bit here and there, and I have lots of nearly finished drafts. I won’t have a fixed schedule or anything, but I just want to write what and when I feel like it, and actually publish the posts.

Well, there you go! Those are my New Years Resolutions! I hope that everyone’s year has been off to a good start so far ❤

Attitude Hair Dye Review

I won a tub of Attitude Holland’s new hair dye brand Dye With Attitude in August. I asked my husband to help me pick a colour and we chose Dramatic. I decided to do an honest review of this dye, for those interested in trying it out 🙂

Tub Size & Price

I compared it to some other brands I own that are also sold by Attitude Holland:

Manic Panic comes in a 118ml tub and retails for €11.99 (Lunar Tides has the same size tub as Manic Panic and retails for €13.99).
Dye With Attitude comes in a 135ml tub and retails for €11.99.
Directions comes in a 88ml tub and retails for €8.99.
So as you can see, it comes in the largest tub and is the most affordable when it comes to the price per ml.

Application

Before applying, I bleached my hair to almost platinum blonde, as I always do when I change the colour. The dye consistency is the same as most other brands. It was really easy to apply with a brush and to spread it through my hair (in this case, just my fringe). After application I did what I always do – heated up my hair with my hairdryer for about 5 minutes to help the colours absorb better. The instructions say to leave it in for a minimum of 15-30 minutes. I always leave my hair dye in for at least 2 hours, so I did this and then rinsed with cold water. When I rinsed out the dye, the water was coloured for a really long time.

Aftercare

One thing I noticed when I washed it was that there was A LOT of colour bleeding in the beginning. Around the same amount as Manic Panic. It also stained my hands the first 3 times when drying and styling my fringe. After that there was almost no colour bleeding anymore and the shower water did not discolour much. It should also be noted that I wash my hair with cold / lukewarm water and wash it twice a week. The more you wash your hair, the faster the dye will fade, just like any other semi-permanent dye.

1 month comparison

The colour faded to a brighter purple over time which still looks good! You can see the difference in this before/after slider. I am happy that it washed out brighter rather than fading and disappearing to expose the colour underneath.

Final Thoughts

Overall, I am super happy with this hair dye! The colour lasted very well compared to some other brands and didn’t fade to a bad colour either. I could easily leave my hair as is for at least another month or two and it would probably still look good, so it’s great for people who want colour that looks good for a long time because they don’t have time to redye (or are just lazy like me!). The cost is also very affordable – it works out the cheapest per ml compared to the other brands that I have tried so it’s a perfect choice if you’re on a budget. The colour bleeding I can live with, but I know some people don’t like using dyes that do that. The only brand I like that has less colour bleeding is Lunar Tides. As with other semi-permanent dyes you can also mix the different colours to make your own, which is always a bonus if you want to try something new. So basically, I love this hair dye and I can’t wait to try out their other colours!

Until next time,
Jossie
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I’m back!

Wow, what a crazy year…

Honestly, this is long overdue. I’ve been wanting to start blogging again for months now, but I just haven’t found the drive to do it. I’m sure you understand, given the current situation with the pandemic. I’ve decided to stop procrastinating and start doing things I enjoy again, even when I don’t feel like it (which is most of the time right now, to be honest). I have a lot to write about – from what I’ve been creating recently, to product reviews, life updates and more – and I’m excited to share it with you.

Until next time (definitely not in over a year again, oops),

Jossie

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I spent (almost) a week on a boat in France!

Hi everyone!

I am very behind with blog posts, sorry.  This post is about my holiday with my husband, parents and brother!

We rented a boat from Le Boat for 6 days at the end of June. Unfortunately it was in the middle of the heat wave, which did affect the trip, but it was still fun!

Some info before I get into what we did each day:

  • The boat we got had 3 cabins with 3 “bathrooms” – the tiniest I’ve ever seen! The space is quite cramped, but we spent most of the time on the deck or exploring places so it wasn’t an issue.
  • We were sailing on the Canal de la Marne au Rhin, which is located in north-eastern France.
  • Our starting point was Le Boat Hesse and we were heading in the direction of Strasbourg.
  • We could pretty much sail along whichever route we wanted and could moor anywhere unless there were signs that prohibited it. It was a very relaxed trip where we could take our time, stop wherever we wanted to explore, buy food or sleep. We had to keep in mind that the locks closed at 7pm though.
  • We were taught how to sail and how the canal locks work on arrival, so you do not need experience for something like this!

Here’s what we got up to:

Day 1

We arrived at Le Boat Hesse in the late afternoon and were showed how the boat works. We set off just before 6pm so unfortunately we didn’t get very far because the locks and tunnels close at 7pm.

This is where we ended up mooring for the first night. It was so peaceful here!

Day 2

We set off in the morning and before we reached our first locks, we went through two tunnels that are very near to each other – Niderwiller (475m) and Arzviller (2307m!). This was the only thing we could see the entire time going through the tunnels:

Next was the massive Saint-Louis-Arzviller boat lift!  This lift replaced 17 boat locks along 4km that used to be the only route along the canal. This massive lift took only 4 minutes to get from the Lorraine plateau at the top to the Alsace plain at the bottom.

We moored just after the lift to take a break and to go check out the Cristallerie Lehrer, which is mostly a large glassware shop, but also had glassblowing demonstrations. Everything in the shop is made on site and they had some incredible creations. I forgot to take photos there though!

Next we moored at Lutzelbourg because we needed to get something to eat, and wanted to go to the Château de Lutzelbourg ruins. We explored the town for a while before heading to the ruins.

The church was quite a lovely building.

It was about a 30 minute walk through a forest to the top of the hill where Château de Lutzelbourg is, and was definitely worth it! The view was incredible. It’s a shame that the castle is only ruins now. It must have been magnificent in its time.

Day 3

The next day we reached Saverne, which is such a beautiful town! We had some burgers and ice cream, went to the Rohan Castle (also known as Château Neuf – sorry no photos because there was a large truck in front of the building which ruined all the photos 😦 ) and to the Notre-Dame-de-la-Nativité (fun fact – France actually has 19 churches named Notre Dame, the cathedral is simply the most famous one!).

Bumblebee butt!

Unfortunately it was so unbearably hot that we had to stay in the shade as much as possible, and because of this and forecasts that Strasbourg was going to be 1 degree hotter the next day, we decided to stay in Saverne overnight, then head back in the direction we came (where it would be 3-4 degrees cooler the next day).

Day 4

This was the first time that I decided to be the captain! We made our way back in the direction of Hesse, and stopped at a few places we missed on the way there.

One of these spots was the location of the old lock houses that were used before the Saint-Louis-Arzviller lift was built. Many of the lock houses are abandoned, but some of them are now private homes and there was even a restaurant. There were lots of beautiful wooded areas along the route.

My husband and I decided to take a small path into the forest and accidentally stumbled upon this creepy tunnel! He found a button that turned on the light so we decided to explore. It ended up just going through the hill and led to a road next to some train tracks, so we just took the same route back.

We made a kitty friend!

We kind of forgot about the time and realised that the lift was almost closing, so my parents and brother cycled back to the boat as fast as they could, while we walked to the connecting point of the old route and the canal to meet them there. They were the last boat allowed on the lift before closing! Luckily they were allowed on and managed to get to us. We went through the tunnels again and moored in the same place as on the first night.

Day 5

We reached Hesse around lunch time on the 5th day, and decided to stop to refill our water supply and to get a proper meal. We found Restaurant Nicolas and I had the most delicious meal I’ve ever had in my entire life (it was a cordon bleu). Even though the waitress could only speak French (and I only know a handful of words and phrases), she was very friendly and helpful. I wish I could speak French though, but at least I am going to start lessons soon.

After our meal we decided to continue sailing in the direction of Nancy, even though we knew we wouldn’t get very far. We passed through some lovely shaded areas for most of the journey.

We decided to stop in a tiny town called Xouaxange (I have no idea how the hell to pronounce that!) because our guide book said that there were some ruins to look at. Unfortunately after wandering around the entire town because Google maps was useless, we found them and this was it.. No sign or info about it, just some ruins in a field. We were a bit disappointed, but at least it was an adventure!

When we carried on on our journey, we reached this huge lock which is almost 15m high! It was quite intimidating and took a lot more work than the others we had gone through. It also took almost 30 minutes to get through it!

Unfortunately after we got through the lock it was already almost time for the locks to close, so we moored at a quiet location in the shade. We went exploring and ended up finding this interesting looking building in Bataville. Unfortunately I have no idea what it is/was used for.

Day 6

This was our last day so we just had to make our way back to the base at Hesse. We had to pass through the massive lock again. In this photo you can see how huge it is!

When we got back to base we just cleaned the boat, had a proper shower and then we were on our way back home to Belgium! My dad decided to take us via Luxembourg so we could see where he often travels for work. We explored the absolutely breathtaking Luxembourg city, but sadly I couldn’t take many nice photos because of construction happening all over.

Of course the best way to end a holiday is with a locally brewed beverage! This beer was amazing!

And that’s it! I hope you enjoyed reading about my holiday!

Let me know if you still want a post all about my first Wave-Gotik-Treffen. I was planning on writing one but because of exams and this trip I have been quite busy and forgot about it. Oops! I’ll still write it though if anyone is interested!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from June

Hi everyone!

I’ve been neglecting my blog so much this year 😦 This has been a very busy month again, so here’s my monthly post that’s part of a Swap-Bot swap! I hope to post more in the next month!

On 1st June I went to AttitudeFest (a recurring event hosted by Attitude Holland) for the first time! I didn’t take nearly enough photos! It was such a fun day and I met so many lovely people! There were lots of fun workshops to attend and I managed to get lots of really cool clothing items from the clothing swap workshop. I was planning on doing a post featuring all the items I got there, but didn’t have time – let me know if any of you would still like to see it anyway. One of the highlights of the day was meeting this lovely lady (Grave Lavolta) who I have been following on Instagram for a few years now!

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I also got a few photos taken by ByMarije, a photographer whose work I really admire! The nose chain and necklace are my own creations and are available to purchase from my Etsy store.

The following week I left for my first ever Wave-Gotik-Treffen! Again – if you would still like an individual post on this, let me know! I know it’s super late! But here are some of the highlights of the festival.

One of the only photos I took with my friend Caroline. We shared an Airbnb for the week! She has a really cool blog so check it out!
The local bakery sold these cute coffin cakes during the festival so I just had to get one!
The beautiful Wachau church ruins where The Moon and the Nightspirit performed on the Sunday!
Our DIY absinthe bar, haha! I wanted to try absinthe for the first time so my friends helped me out!
Our extremely tired faces! This was taken at 8am on the Tuesday morning when we got kicked out of the last party of WGT.

I took my husband to do a free walking tour of our city and got him to take a selfie! He normally hates selfies!

From the 24th until the 29th I was on a family holiday where we rented a boat on the Canal de la Marne au Rhin in France! I’ll be writing an in-depth post on the trip sometime this week, but here are some photos!

The massive boat lift Saint-Louis-Arzviller
The view from the Château de Lutzelbourg ruins
We also stopped in Luxembourg on the way home. It’s so beautiful there!

I hope you enjoyed reading about my month!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from May

Hi everyone!

Here’s my monthly post that’s part of a Swap-Bot swap! I was very busy again this month!

I had my jewellery stall at Comic Con Gent and on one of the days I did this cool elf look! The circlet is available to purchase in my Etsy shop!

I went to visit my friend Kat in Antwerp, and we went to the Game of Thrones pop up bar! It was so cool! The decor was absolutely perfect and it was a great experience.

I had two photoshoots this month! Here’s my favourite picture I’ve received so far!

I met up with my friend Nienke on the 27th. We did some thrift shopping and afterwards went for all-you-can-eat sushi and even tried some weird things on the menu!

On the 29th my mother came to visit me! We went on a boat tour in my city and I learned a few things I didn’t know yet!

And lastly, I went to see one of my favourite bands, She Past Away, perform at B52 Club in Eernegem. They were amazing and I’d love to see them again!

I hope you enjoyed reading about my month!

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from April

Hi everyone!


I’ve been terrible at remembering to create blog posts, oops! April was an extremely busy month for me, so prepare for lots of photos! As always, this post is done as a Swap-Bot swap.

The first awesome thing doesn’t have a photo, but I successfully completed level 2 of my Dutch course! I am now busy with level 3! I think I will be able to speak enough Dutch to get a job after this level!

One of the most exciting things for me was that I got featured on the cover of FEMME Rebelle Magazine‘s April issue! Thank you to DeeDee Boop Photography for this amazing shoot! I am so proud of us! This was actually her first time ever even submitting photos to a magazine!

I also made a new friend called Hjalmar! We met on my folk metal community on Amino, and it’s nice to finally have a friend here in Belgium who loves folk metal as much as I do!


On the 6th April, I tagged along to a my friend Orphea‘s video shoot, and the photographer Erik Noppe, took some photos of me too. I am really happy with how they came out! This one of the two of us is my favourite.


I travelled to The Netherlands to work with the incredible Sanne van Bergenhenegouwen Fotografie and Ashley Design Make-up Artistry. The trip was absolutely worth it as the photos from this shoot are probably my favourite photos of my entire modeling career so far! Here is one photo of each of the looks we shot:

The headpiece in the second photo was made for me by my friend Samantha Els before I left South Africa, and my necklace is one of my own creations and is available to purchase here!

While I was in the bus on my way back home from The Netherlands, my parents phoned and asked if I wanted to go to Damüls, Austria in two days, so of course I said yes as soon as they mentioned the possibility of skiing! Here’s a photo of my mother and I on the slopes!


When I got back, I had one day to relax, then I had my stall at the monthly Etsy Market in the Sint-Niklaaskerk in the Gent city centre!

Orphea also took this lovely photo of me on one of the days before the market opened!

I also travelled to Roeselare to see Elvenking live! Elvenking has been one of my favourite bands for almost 10 years now, so it was a very emotional night for me.


The other two bands who played that night, Desert and Frozen Crown, were also amazing and I enjoyed hanging out with them. Here’s me with Desert, and their unicorn mascot!

And finally, the last photo from April – my favourite jewellery creation from the month! I had lots of fun making many one of a kind beaded necklaces and chokers in April, but this one with the Green Man is my absolute favourite. It’s available to purchase here!


That’s all from me for now! I hope you enjoyed this post!

J

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My First Ever Post-punk concert (OOTN and a short review)

Hi everyone!

On Friday night I went to my first ever post-punk concert! We don’t have these kinds of bands in South Africa so this is one of the things I was excited for about moving to Belgium!

I didn’t know either of these artists so I decided to check them out beforehand and really liked their sound so decided to go. Every month or so Dark Entries hosts an event with different goth or related genre bands playing. It’s a super tiny venue, but the sound is pretty decent!

Here are some photos of my outfit for the night! I was EXTREMELY overdressed for this event! xD Everyone looked super normal and I felt very out of place, but the music was good!

I arrived a bit late and Xtort had already started playing. They are based in Duisburg, Germany and describe their sound as industrial wave post-punk. I really enjoyed their performance! They are a two man act, which is something I had never seen before, so I was really impressed! They have a very experimental sound, mixing different styles and sounds! I love it!

Here’s one of their songs so you can check them out:

Palais Ideal were amazing! They are from Eindhoven, The Netherlands. I absolutely love post-punk and I really enjoyed their show! They are also a two man band. Their sound has a lot of old school post-punk elements so it’s perfect for those who love older goth music. I found it funny how the lead vocalist / guitarist sort of looked like he could be a CEO because of his suit, tie and short hair, and the backing vocalist / bassist looked like he was too cool for the job, with his unbuttoned shirt, hair in his face and sunglasses.

Here’s one of their songs:

Both of these bands are on Spotify if you want to check out more of their music! Unfortunately I couldn’t find my favourite tracks on YouTube.

J

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My Favourite Pictures and Memories from February

Hi everyone!


As always, this post is done as a Swap-Bot swap 🙂 This year is flying by! I can’t believe it’s March already!


I got a new phone with an amazing camera, so I’ve been taking lots of photos of the beautiful sites around Gent. This is the castle Gravensteen, that I see every day on my way to the city centre.


Here’s a cute photo I took of Rits when I was testing out my new phone’s camera!


I have been making a lot of new jewellery pieces recently and this is one of my favourites so far! You can check out and purchase my jewellery pieces at Ayame Designs 🙂


A while back, Grey Engel Artwork painted one of my modeling photos. I decided to buy it and it is now hanging on my wall!


On the 24th February, I got to see my favourite band, Korpiklaani, live, along with TrollfesT and Turisas! I put my synthetic dreads in specifically for the occasion!


And here’s my favourite photo I took while Korpiklaani was performing. I have the biggest crush on Jonne Järvelä! I made a blog post with more photos of the show, which you can check out here if you are interested!


The last photo for this month is Mavis enjoying her new radiator hammock! It took her a while to start using it but now she loves it! I want to buy more for the other rooms.



That’s all from me for now!

J

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Notoriously Morbid Vanishing Cabinet Jan ’19 Review

Hi everyone!

Sorry this review is very late! I have been ill a few times in the past month but I am finally better and have the time to do a review for January’s Vanishing Cabinet. I’ve already received the next one so I’ll review that one next week!

For those who are not familiar with Notoriously Morbid, they are an indie makeup company based in the US and the Vanishing Cabinet is their monthly subscription which includes limited edition products with a certain theme!

This month’s theme was “Even After All This Time?” and yes, that’s referring to Alan Rickman! What an awesome tribute to one of the greatest actors who ever lived. I’ve put the movie in brackets after the shadow name.

Here’s what I got:

Always eyeshadow (Harry Potter)

WOW WOW WOW! My new favourite eye shadow! This is the most perfect Slytherin colour! It’s black with a dark green and blue sheen.

I Cannot Tell You, It Is A Secret eyeshadow (Sense and Sensibility)

This is such a beautiful shade! It’s got a blue base with green and pink sparkles. This shadow works really well for a “one and done” eye look if you’re feeling lazy.

The Classic Fool eyeshadow (Love Actually)

This is a shimmery orange toned red shadow. It has a sort of pinky undertone to it. I think this will work very well with purples, reds or pinks!

Yippie-Ki-Yay eyeshadow (Die Hard)

A matte peanut coloured brown shadow. This is the only product from this month that I won’t be keeping, as I am not a fan of browns! But it is a nice brown.

You Shall Be Avenged blush (Galaxy Quest)

This is a very beautiful light purple blush with a silvery blue sheen to it. It looks absolutely stunning when it catches the light! I am in love!

I created two separate looks for this month’s VC, one green look, and one look using the other shades!

Look 1:

Products used:

Eyeshadow: NM So Goes My Nation as a base, NM Christmas Cheer (from Dec ’18 VC) in inner corner, NM I Cannot Tell You, It Is A Secret & NM Always on lid.

Mascara: LA Girl.

Contour: NM Necromancy.

Highlight: NM My Bugs.

Lips: NM Mire (from the Black Friday 2018 collection).

Look 2:

Products used:

Eyeshadow: NM So Goes My Nation as a base, NM Yippee-Ki-Yay and NM Bloody Awful Poet in outer corner and crease, NM The Classic Fool in outer corner, NM You Shall Be Avenged in the centre, NM Sugared Bombs (from the Black Friday ’18 collection) in inner corner.

Mascara: LA Girl.

Contour: NM Necromancy.

Highlight: NM Osteomancy.

Lips: NM Throne Of Lies gloss

I hope you enjoyed this review and the looks!

J

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